Still, the Social Assistant is capable to promote the aged, the similar one auto-valuation of of that it if feels enclosed in the Society. It is necessary to transform the reality of aged so that in a next future they can live with dignity, eradicating all and the any form of isolation and social exclusion. METHODOLOGY In visit to the home Towers of Melo, where I could interview the social assistant head of the sector of Social Service to the aged one institutionalized, the Dra. Maria Julia de Barros, author of the book LEARNING TO AGE, and the trainee of social service Mirian Gondim, of which I had access to handbooks and descriptions of the interns, where sigilosamente I could read some cases of familiar violence, generating the coming of the aged a institution, many times intervened by the Public prosecution service. The order of the institution, I did not publish in the work no data referring to the subject, preserving the privacy of the interns, and I did not cite the violncias, in the visits that I had to the home preventing the painful souvenirs of its past. For the accomplishment of this work, I got dedicated aid in specialized sites and books the violence suffered in the third age, beyond periodic visits to the asylum Home Towers of Melo.