So it's time for a change. You had to examine carefully in the mirror and decided that what we are is not who wants to be. Or perhaps you're standing at a fork in the road and where required to go make some changes. Maybe you're just really bored with his life, as you state in the usual routine for so long that only want to scream if another day doing the same things incredibly boring again. The reasons for change are as varied as the people making the decision to do so.
All you have to remember is that change must come from you, not someone else. And there can be a gift to another person will not work. Ultimately, recreating ourselves is a very personal choice and a very personal decision that others really can not help with. Your wife thinks you drink too much and should quit. Their parents think they have to loosen too much and get better grades. Your boss thinks you are lazy and have to be more professional.
If people in your life are the hammered to change, then it may be time to take a long hard look in the mirror. To some extent, you have to be open to the idea that they may be right. But not you. They can not walk in their shoes. Nobody can fully understand another person completely. Only you really know what is right for you. Only you can choose your path in life, who decides to walk on the road, and what kind of person you go.